tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8242926316765633205.post4920381548637077734..comments2024-03-17T04:14:44.845-05:00Comments on Frugal Scholar: Getting Ready for College the Frugal WayFrugal Scholarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12696815672500452503noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8242926316765633205.post-76108679981287050832009-10-09T13:02:44.344-05:002009-10-09T13:02:44.344-05:00This is basically what happened at my house, but i...This is basically what happened at my house, but in July. I bought my college things relatively early because I started college on Aug. 1 when I went to IU's early freshman seminar.CH1https://www.blogger.com/profile/12839029569078102334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8242926316765633205.post-84462397573123299482009-06-14T08:28:00.635-05:002009-06-14T08:28:00.635-05:00@sallymandy--Many thanks, once more, for a thought...@sallymandy--Many thanks, once more, for a thoughtful comment. It's funny that you should compare me to Amy D, because I am a sad case in the domestic skills department. But she is a wonderful writer, so I hope I share that! Truly, though, I often find that she "said it all" in her books. That may be because frugality only has a few basic tenets--choice, as you say, is key.Frugal Scholarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12696815672500452503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8242926316765633205.post-71093460411967692252009-06-10T09:31:39.064-05:002009-06-10T09:31:39.064-05:00Frugal, I'm not sure I have a ready answer to ...Frugal, I'm not sure I have a ready answer to your questions, but I had to say I'm struck, as I have been before, with how similar your thinking seems to be to Amy D. of the Tightwad Gazette (won't even attempt to spell her last name). I love Amy's approach, and was an avid student of hers for years. Some of her concepts have changed my way of thinking about money forever, for the better. <br /><br />I tend to seek the safety of moderation when dealing with my daughter and school "needs" and "wants." I tell her "some kids have way more stuff than you, some have less. You can be in the middle." I try not to follow every whim, but also not force her to feel deprived. <br /><br />As always, remembering that we have choices is key. <br /><br />Also, Frugal, I wanted to thank you for your kind comment this morning. I changed my reader appreciation post to include people who read but don't always have time to comment. I certainly understand that--and always enjoy your posts as well.sallymandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15832828827048897372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8242926316765633205.post-4047854924115785392009-06-09T09:43:32.776-05:002009-06-09T09:43:32.776-05:00OMG! You still have the Marimekko truck comforter?...OMG! You still have the Marimekko truck comforter??? Wow! That's a major accomplishment in museum-quality preservation...M'hijito's wore completely out.<br /><br />By the time M'hijito got to college, he was used to being the scruffy kid. We sure couldn't afford to keep up with the Joneses at the expensive private day school he attended. <br /><br />One woman in our car pool bought her preschool-age son a different pair of Vans for every...day...of...the...week!!! My kid was wearing tennies from FedMart at the time. FedMart was the precursor of Price Club; it was significantly more downscale than PC.<br /><br />Probably not fitting in with the other kids was not very good for him. He's a pretty countercultural adult with no sense of what's appropriate for business wear (he may know, but he refuses to wear it). But he sure is good at managing money.Funny about Moneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13188173788063351801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8242926316765633205.post-11197860732332052822009-06-07T18:53:35.196-05:002009-06-07T18:53:35.196-05:00@Duchesse--Oh, I love Penelope Leach. I gave away ...@Duchesse--Oh, I love Penelope Leach. I gave away all my baby books and only read hers. Love your idea of stocking up for your sons.Frugal Scholarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12696815672500452503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8242926316765633205.post-27088612944697932362009-06-07T17:06:39.546-05:002009-06-07T17:06:39.546-05:00I buy all our linens at Garnet Hill, ever since I ...I buy all our linens at Garnet Hill, ever since I read Penelope Leach's advice to make your child's bed a welcoming place, with nice linens. Sometimes on sale, sometimes not.<br /><br />Getting ready for college was minmal for us as one son lived in the dorm for a year, 5 miles from home and at home the rest of the time, and other son lives here while working. NOW comes the big push, as we expect them to head off by the end of this year. So I am stockpiling 'older but not wrecked' towels, kitchen essential,etc.Duchessehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09986153653120526776noreply@blogger.com