I really think there's a change in how people are thinking of living in retirement. That's why I so liked Funny About Money's ruminations on the group of independent 80 year olds she met.
Here's something I read today, about older singles taking in roommates. It's sometimes, but not always, because of financial need. It strikes me as a good way to deal with the perhaps too-big unsellable-in-this-market house.
Check it out.
Would you take in a roommate?
A brilliant idea in theory and in practice too, if you do find someone you trust and like. Maybe two friends would like to live together. I agree, that everything should be checked out and written down, even between friends. But there are endless benefits too in the idea of sharing a house/apartment! Most women ( married ) have shared their home already, and are adjusted to compromises in their former life. So why not?
ReplyDeleteI think it might work for the 50 somethings who are still working. It isn't option I'd like to consider at my age. I already live in a small house, mortgage paid, convenient to shopping and public transportation. Things I considered years ago. I also have children/grands nearby who I think (hope!) I can count on to check on me if needs be in the future.
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4 widowed elderly siblings shared a home in the neighborhood I grew up in. They were a lovely family and got along very well.
ReplyDeleteAs children, my sister and I talked about living together should unfortunate circumstances come our way late in life. It's a good feeling to have that sense of security in today's uncertain times...
I'd love to have a good roomie..I miss that from college. The problem is finding the right match (and one who loves my big dogs!)
ReplyDelete@metscan--Good point at the end! I wonder if one could have a house set up to provide lots of private space...must give this more thought.
ReplyDelete@darla--You have a perfect situation. Could you share your city?
@GAB--Oh, you are so lucky to have sisters.
@Suzy--As I mentioned to metscan, I'm thinking about dividing a space into private and shared spaces. This would be possible in my house even though it is on the small side and only 1 story.
I hope to find intergenerational housing, such as a co-op. Really do not want to live with only elders, if not under my rood at least nearby. Sitting on a bench watching little ones hop home from school is such a delight.
ReplyDeleteOops thiat is of course "roof".
ReplyDelete@Duchesse-That is a perfect idea. Similar to ideas espoused in "A Pattern Language."
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